When I have sex I have no problem getting and maintaining an erection but I cannot reach climax. I'm sure I'm pretty healthy. I can only reach it masturbating but that takes a while as well.
Normally I wouldn't complain but it is putting stress on the relationship... I think she is taking it that I'm not that attracted to her that she can't satisfy me. Anyone know a good way to break down my stamina or increase my sensitivity?
Posts: 1 | Location: Canada | Registered: 29 May 2004
I hope that I can help you on this. I have exactly the same problem. No problem on getting an erection an reaching a intermediate stage of arousal, but I thought I was unable to ejaculate. I can ejaculate through masturbation. A couple of weeks ago my girlfriend and I were watching a program (sex-tips for girls) and they advised to train a certain muscle, called PC-muscle (SP?), both for him and her. It's dificult to explain the usage of the muscle in detail but it sure makes all the difference in the world. All of a sudden I have more sensitivity in my shaft, in combination with more friction from my girlfriend, flexing her PC-muscle makes her tighter. The key is the male PC-muscle! By controling this muscle I am finally after all these years (35 now) I am able to bring myself to a climax through normal intercourse, what a sensation and a difference. It can take a while before you really feel a difference (couple of weeks), keep training every day for some minutes, its worth it. I have been consulting a shrink years before and he told me that it must be something psychological, but a muscle is the key!
I hope it is the answer for you as well and brings pleasure in future. Keep me informed about the result, good luck.
Barry (from Amsterdam)
Posts: 2 | Location: Netherlands | Registered: 14 September 2004
