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Don't do that honey x

He really hasn't thought about what he's said and i'm sure it was just in the heat of the moment. Maybe take some time to calm down and get your thoughts in order and have a chat with him. I totally agree there's no way you can work nights when you are doing all that all day.

Nothing is bad enough to take your life, especially when your poor kids would miss you so much x

Abuse is not about leaving physical bruises, its about making someone feeling like you do now.
Please dont think about something as final as taking your life, you need to plan all your different options, seek advice on all your possibilities and take the one that is best for you and your children.
Take it from someone who has been there, the help is there, take it.
Pm me if you need to know anything, cab is a great place to start.
Only you know if this is a minor blip and your husband will regret his actions or if this is a daily thing you really cant take any more.
Only you know if this is worth working at or not.
When he is in a better mood perhaps start by telling him how you feel.
Hope you can get things sorted for the best for you, whatever that is.

Pinky xx

Hi Hun I hope your feling abit better. i totally know where you are coming from as i have also been there. After 22 years of the mental abuse i had enough and walked away nearly 3 years ago. Best thing i ever did to be honest, it was really hard at the time but worth it. As Pinky has said we dont know how bad your situation is and whether it is like ours was but there are people on here who will listen with empathy as they have been in that position. If you ever need to bend my ear im here just give me a shout. I have a good shoulder xx

julie xx

aw lorraine huni

i know how hard things are for u both at the minute ur both going through alot and u know im always here for u hun

chris is just being a D*ck as usual dnt let him get to you we all know u cant physically work nights u do far to much it wouldnt be worth u working days as all ur money would go on child care

ive told you this before and im gona tell u again now he dont deserve you, u do so much for him and ur always there for him, he treats u like this too oftern huni, and he really dnt deserve you

i love u remember that, and u know u always have a place here with me u and all the kids if things turn really bad love u babe

Thanks girls

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Sounds like you need to be tough hun and tell him a few home truths and make him know how much it's affecting everyone and how it can't go on like this. You deserve better hun. Chris needs a good slap!

Sorry i didn't call you. I have a terrible cold and everytime i talk i end up having a bad coughing fit so not good.

Hugs and i am not far away if you need me hun. Remember that. It's only an hour and a half in the car.

Hugs

Rhi
xxx

Musswells, do you love him? does he still love you? Are you just both under stress? sorry to be personal but sometimes the best thing to do if the love has gone and things aren't going well is to separate. The kids are going to pick up on bad atmospheres and even though being a single parent is tough, it might be a better option than whats happening at the moment.

Things should never be so bad that you would be willing to give your life up. If things are that bad, get rid of him, not you.

Sorry if I appear abrupt but I split with my eldest's dad 16 years ago and went on to meet my husband and have had 14 happy years since and I see my ex sometimes and know things would have stayed the same and we were just incompatible. He just used to rub me up the wrong way and I am a different person with my husband.

Hope things get better for you soon. Let us know how it works out.

Trad

Things seem a bit better

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