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I think that comment was a little uncalled for Ruthy.

I've seen your posts in the past Lorraine - especially the one you started only last week saying you couldn't stand it with your DH any more. From what I've read you're a lovely lady, and a fantastic mum.

BUT I've got to be honest with you, and I know you might not like it - that sounds like a REALLY bad idea. Did he actually have a choice when it came to having #3 or did you do the same thing as you're talking about now?

I know you are yearning for another baby really badly, and that feeling is sooooo hard to fight. But intentionally getting yourself pregnant without your hubby's knowledge isn't the answer; especially if he's making you feel as bad as he did last week. No baby deserves to be bought into that situation...and YOU deserve to sort you and your hubby's relationship out. If after you've done that you still want another bubba then talk to him about it. But as much as you're entitled to say I WANT ANOTHER BABY, he's equally entitled to say I DON'T....

Just put yourself in his position - how would you feel if you were forced into doing something you didn't want to do by him? Not happy I should imagine!

I am sorry if you think I'm terrible for saying the above, I may be speaking out of turn. But I think I'm only writing what everyone else is thinking.

You have seen the other posts by 'Ruthy' haven't you Lorraine? All 4 of them.

Someone else was asking about a paternity test in December and they told them to go on Jeremy Kyle! A very constructive poster...I think not.

Muswells, in all fairness you posted to say you were going to con your husband into having another child. If a man made a comment like that there would be outrage.

I don't know much of your situation, but I do know that you have made comments regarding how bad your relationship is with your hubby. Surely having a baby with him if you have a bad relationship isn't right, or am I old fashioned????

Kate
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first i would like to say your comments are not welcome on here ruthy how dare you offend people like that youve obviously got nothing better to do do you have kids of your own i wouldnt think so well i wouldnt want an offensive mother like you musswells me love dont take any notice u know where i am if you want to chat

Ruthy u are one pathetic Bitch how dare u insult my friend like that

u obviously have nothing better to do with your life if your going around insulting innocent people lorraine is a good woman a very good weoman and alot of people will back me up here shes very considerate to others unlike yourself

yeah shes had a few hard times but dnt we all i seriously think u need to appologise for your comments ur just plain pathetic

i am absolutly discusted by u u pathetic bitch

think u need to get a life never mind a job

funny f ucker aint ya

hey kia is there any way we can contact the moderators about this person she obviously needs blocking from this site

HOW DARE YOU COME ON HERE AND TREAT ANOTHER PERSON LIKE THAT RUTHY. You have to be the rudest most selfish person i have ever seen on this boards and i seriously hope they ban you from this site. This is meant to be a place for people to come for support not to be told such horrid things as you have come out of. HOW DARE YOU INSULT SOMEONE SAYING THEY ARE THICK FOR NOT WORKING!!!!!!! It doesn't pay some people to work and pay for childcare. Doesn't make them stupid at all and you are very very narrow minded for thinking that. If you haven't got anything nice to say then don't say it at all. Lorraine has posted on these borads for years and is worth ten times you are to many people on here.

Everyone else i realise is trying to help Lorraine and i agree with you that she should sort her relationship out first and then try for her much wanted baby. But unfortunately all this nastiness has really upset Lorraine and she now wants to leave.

Sorry for the rant everyone but Lorraine is a good friend and has helped me out through some tough times and i would hate to think that a newcomer would be able to come on here and drive someone away like this. This makes me sooooo mad

Rhi
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actually i dont think educated peolpe are any better than teen mums i had an education and i also had my eldest daughter at the age of 17 go away from these forums and leave all us decent people alone this is supposed to be a parenting site not a slanging match

x posted you rhi well said babe

omg this is pathetic, weather or not im a teen mum so what does that mean i cant take care of my son the same as an older person?? i think not and if we are bringing the education into it, im almost 20 have my own home a partner and im also a deputy manager so i dnt think im lacking on the education part

u need to get a grip and move on luv ur getting boring now

i think we need to ignore her this is supposed to be a parenting forum and this thread had turned into a bitch fight lol funny as it is kia and rhi well chosen words wish i was as witty lorraine hun u shouldnt leave us just because of this one person come on luv were here for you

its just so pathetic she obviously has a very boring life as she needs to find fun in ours

just totally childish

i wonder if she is a she or if he/she has any children would be nice to know how his/her children are brought up sorry dragged up there the kind of kids thatll end up with asbos no bet lol yes its very PATHETIC RUTHY GET A LIFE STOP BEING CHILDISH AND PATHETIC AND LEAVE OUR BOARDS(by the way im not usually nasty to anyone but i think this one deserves it)