You know I didn't know if posting last night was the right thing to do and agonised over my decision. I am so glad I did because your posts have shown me what a fantastic bunch of people are on this site and i can safely say that order has now been restored, thank god
I always say that if life throws you a bunch of lemons then make lemonade, well ladies, we made lemonade today and for that I am eternally grateful to you all.
Throwing you all tons of babydust and PMA and many many hugs
Love SueXXXX
Posts: 666 | Location: Ireland | Registered: 13 May 2005
i don't really know what has been said but i kinda get the drift, sue that was the best thing you could have done, when trying to start family, all anyone needs is a great big family around them to support and whinge to, i know meeting all my lovley ladies in due in may/june 2007 really helped when i had bad/good days, you ladies should feel proud of yourself and never let a lonely sad women make you feel otherwise. up until now i have never felt how you girls have been feeling because yes i have 4 wonderful children, but after my 4th we decided it would be better for one of us to take permant action to stop us falling pg. as the hospital wouldn't sterlizse me it was left up to my other half at the time i thought it was the right thing to do, and now it to late and yes i do want another child. i may sound really bad because yes we did agree on it, but i felt that was right. now i relise that was the wrong choice, i have fallen pg on conception and have found many of other types of conception have left me with quite big side affects, so that is why we made this choice. (bit of backgound info)
i when i joined back in oct 06 i was welcomed by my girls but i also log on to the 2ww to congratulate any girls who had become pg or to send my wishes to to the ladies who's af had turned up, i was never once made to feel like crap, many of the girl who have posted on this thred where on the 2ww or ttc thred, i was helped to understand the terms and wording that you ladies used and still i was never made to feel like an idiot so i do agree that what sue did was right.
so to all the ladies i feel for you and your short or long journey and even more jorney ahead.
i send to you some of mine baby dust that i can no longer use in the hoping that it come of some use, either that or you can just use my tummy, i have always longed to be a surrogate. i believe all mother who try so hard to have a baby and long for a baby to love and care for should have that wish granted.
sending all my love and hugs to all the ladies out there.
janine XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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Posts: 656 | Location: preston | Registered: 25 October 2006
Just wanted to say Good Luck to Sue for the next round of IVF.
Just to add I totally agree with Sue's post.
I remember starting the original 2WW thread and Sydney started the TTC thread and we used to flit from one thread to another depending where we were in our cycles...
There was a bit of a superstition that whoever started a thread then went onto get PG. Well Sydney is now a proud Mummy and I did get PG but sadly lost it...
I'm still TTC 3 years later, I have seen so many of you come and go and yes there were times when I felt a little tiny bit resentful but it soon passed.
I don't post as often as a lot of my old buddies are now Mum's or Mummies to be and it does get hard, but I always check in to see how everyone is doing and post now and then.
It is a natural thing to want to be with others in similar situations, on clomid, TTC for 12 months, TTC after loss, we all like to be with someone who is going hrough a similar situation and why not... But don't lose sight of the end goal, post on all the threads or post on one, who cares as long as you are getting the information and support you need.
Ok enough from me... Love to all my old buddies...
Sparks xxx
Me 37 DH 34 TTC since March 05 PCOS on Met soon to be a Clomid Gal from Jan 2008.
Posts: 638 | Location: Kent | Registered: 22 February 2005
Sparkley and Susy-babes - how lovely it is to hear from you both again and what a shame it's because of some awful nastiness going on, eh??
These boards have always supported me through my ttc journey - I've made some totally fabulous friends for life on here and we've been through the ups and downs that have been thrown at us all. I hope that continues for the girls who stay here and hope that those who've left come back in time and get the support again.
Anyway it's so good to hear about your ttc plans and I really do wish both of you all the baby dust in the whole world. Sparkle, how are you finding the clomid? Hope that it works for you and Sue good luck with the IVF - can't wait to hear how things go.
holy crap, what is going on??? first and foremost, i am now noods on here...i couldn't get on to respond and had to re-register....
ok, so you all know that i was on here for two years and ended up doing the whole IVF route, and i made the MOST amazing friends here and don't know how i would have made it witout suemac, dippy, faiza, loocy, sparkle, mantha, janine, pnut (hey girl!)kat and nikki - big hey girl to you all-missyou.... i am not sure what has happened, but i remember a similar situation when i first started and the girls who had the issues ended up leaving, so hang in there!! you know this thread is here for a GOOD REASON... i love you and don't know what i would have done without you all...good luck with IVF, email me with any questions...
nicki and bubbly- missing you guys too, it is crazy how time flies huh?? i ccan't believe eddie and sof will be a year in a month!! email me when you get a chance and we can catch up!
chuff me its like a school reunion in here! Hello to everyone who knows me. Didn't see what went on t'other night but Suemac you are a beacon of common sense and I'm glad you posted xx
Posts: 355 | Location: UK | Registered: 07 August 2006
What a reunion of the old chicks, I haven't had chance to read all the posts but us old birds have well and truly come out of the woodwork - Would we be called a "click"?????
Hopefully will have time later to catch up with everyone just about to move bed downstairs as DH has had his cruciate ligament reconstructed and about to pick him up from the hospital
Love to all (and babydust!)
Touchwood XX
Posts: 420 | Location: United Kingdom | Registered: 25 June 2005
Touchwood..how you doing hunny?? it's been sooo long since we last spoke!
Jayjay.. good to hear from you too, although i always check up on you and see how you're doing. Bless you, you soppy thing! It is so nice to hear from all our old 2wwers and i did have a look at the links you put on the other day, seems so long ago now.
Hope the IVF goes well sue and will be e-mailing you noods for a good old natter!
bubbly x x
Posts: 813 | Location: uk | Registered: 29 June 2005
Wow it's so lovely to hear from you all again!! Noods, nickif, touchy, bubbly. So glad to hear you gals are all really well!!! Glad suemac posted!
Thought I'd update you on a couple of the other old timers who used to post here but don't any more.
For those that remember Leigh and Talia, both are continuing their ttc journeys but the news isn't great.
Leigh had two unsuccessful IVF cycles last year but her dad died very suddenly at christmas, so her ttc plans are on hold just now while she comes to terms with all that's happened.
Talia as you know had severe endo and is starting her first IVF sometime this year - she's just taken time out over the last couple of years to get her head round everything that's happened to her too.
I just wish all the best for EVERYONE who is ttc, whether they have been trying for two days or two years. Loads of babydust coming your way
and Sue good luck with the IVF - can't wait to hear how things go. 
