hi karli-jade
Slightly different to lactose intollerant but my DS is allergic to cows milk. he was BF for 1st 6 months but one day just wouldn't settle and so i thought i'd give him a top up with formula. He was about 3 months old. He drank it fine (it was only 2oz i gave him) but within minutes became really distressed, was wheezing, coughing, and came out in a horrid red rash all over his body. His ears also swelled up and he was gasping for breath like he couldn't breathe, it was so scary.
I took him to the hospital and it turns out he'd had an Anaphylactic shock to the milk, similar to what a person with a nut allergy may have. He was given anti histimines and eventually recovered. I continued BF him, and then when i stopped he was perscribed Wysoy soya milk, which he still has now.
Thankfully he's not as 'allergic' now as he was, the reaction he has to milk has decreased as he's got older. Now if he has anything with cows milk in he just gets a rash.
It may be a coincidence but he's had eczema pretty much since birth, he has a very rare type called discoid eczema. apparently eczema is connected with lactose intollerance/milk allergies and also asthma.
doctors seem to be very hesitant in diagnosing lactose intollerance for some reason, although it's getting more and more common now. have you spoken to yours already, or your HV maybe? i believe wysoy is avaliable to buy now in Tescos, you could try her on it if you can't get it perscribed and see if it makes a difference?
hope this helps hun
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