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Cathy,

I still monitor the sites every now and then and I have just read your news. I am thrilled to hear your news about beanie, here's hoping that it's a sticky one.

However, I was truly mortified to hear what your husband has done.

What on earther has got in to the man after everything that you have been through.

Here if you need to chat X

((((( big hug )))))

Loads of baby glue XXX

Touchwood XX

God Cathy things sound so so crappy at the moment.

At least you can take from it the fact that you do have a baba on the way now - even i you can't get your head around it at the mo.

Your husband sounds like, well I wont go off on one as I don't know him, but behaving horrifically to say the least after everything you have gone thru.

With all the babyglue being sent your way, you are going to have a lovely life with you and the little one you have always longed for.

Take care hon, I know words don't help at all.

A xxx

Hi Cathy, I hope youve told him to p!ss off. Youve been through more than enough so im totally sure you are strong enough to do this on your own. Im sure you don't feel like it right now but everything will come right in the end, bloody men!

Sending big hugs your way x x x

Oh Congrats babe on the BFP after all you have been thru well done you. I am sorry abuot hubby, will he change his mind??? We are all here for you babe whenever you need us. xxxx

phew, girls im flattered that you all care so much, i did go to docs today im 7 weeks and EDD is 10th nov.

i went to see a 3 bed flat in windsor today i love it and will be moving is soon.

i have also felt like eating a little more today the first time for a while.

i dont really want to talk about the disapointment i married at the moment, he is just out all the time, i dont want him here anyway.

i havent told any friends or family (apart from the threads) about my situation or that im pregnant.

anyway thanks for the wishes and for caring xx

omfg cathy big (((hugs))) and megga congrats hunny,

kelly xxx

You sound in a bit more control now and brighter than the other day. Will you be going for a scan?

Oh Cathy sweetheart, i am so happy for you.
I wish you all the best. Ah at last - you deserve this baby. 7 weeks already? I wish you a happy pregnancy with all the joys of motherhood.

lots of love
tna

feel a bit better today, packing some kitchen items im taking.

trevor told me to get rid of the baby last night and he would stay with me....ffs sake didnt even answer just looked straight through him,,, did i ever no him at all? think the mans possesed....****ing knob.

any way dont no how long i will feel good so i will just go with it as it happens.

kelly hows the boys? x

Cathy hun you hang in there. After all you've been through to get here I can't believe his attitude. You look after yourself and bubs ok? I'm sure your niece, sister and family and friends will all rally round when you tell them. Are you getting an early scan?

Cathy - what a shocker honestly! Glad you are thinking positively and looking at moving out and starting your new life as a single mum. It won't be that easy all the time - but the bonuses will far outweigh the times you may feel tired or overwhelmed. No man who talks like he has deserves to be a father. Make sure you leave him off the birth certificate so only you have parental rights. He doesn't deserve them. Hopefully one day you will meet an amazing man who will love you and your child and you can make a life with someone who deserves you. Until then, huge huge amounts of baby glue to make this one a sticker and we'll be here every step of the way supporting you.

Stay strong - you will be just fine xxxx

ever ..what a lovely thing to say thankyou and hope all goes well with the birth for you x

Cathy - you sound a lot more positive today and your flat sounds lovely!!! You will have high days and low days but you will get there in the end with a little bundle of joy to boot.

Without using too many expletives I can't describe your h's attitude/behaviour!!!!! What does he expect you to say - 'ok darling, i'll nip off to the abortion clinic tomorrow just for you' - tosser!!!!

You also don't have to tell anyone until you have your own head around it - however, do you know anyone who might break his legs for him????

Take care of you and bump hon.

A x

Hi Cathy,

I haven't checked preg pages for ages, but sooo pleased I had a quick peek... CONGRATULATIONS! I am so so pleased for you and am praying for a very very sticky beanie. You must be over the moon.

BUT I am so sorry and angry to hear what DH is putting you through - and so sorry that your wonderful news has to be tinged with such sadness. As others have said, I can't believe he's done this after everything you've been through together.

Hope you're feeling ok hun and have got lots of friends and family around you for support. Thinking of you - and don't forget all the joy that your new life will bring.

Lots of love and hugs,

Frenchie xxx

Just had to say a HUGE congrats! I hardly come onto the pg pages anymore (very bad of me, I know!). You probably don't remember me but we did a stint on the 2WW together.

So happy to read about your bean.

I won't even mention Trevor as he's not worth it.

xx