Hello tallgirl,
When I found this site, yours were the first posts I read; you were about to get your first BFP - and here you are trying for #2! Felt compelled to reply when I saw your name!!

Just wanted to say I agree with Munchy (hello love

) and that approach. I never get full-on positives with cheapies, but I use them about 3-4 days before I assume I ovulate and then when they get to the darkest that they tend to get to, I switch to Clearblue digis. I think the cheapies do work - but probably better with some people than others. With me, I have to follow the instructions to the letter in terms of not drinking too much and not having a wee for at least 3hrs. Also, I find the most likely time of day to get a result is about 6pm. With Clearblues, you can use FMU - but I always do afternoon tests.
If you can handle checking your cervical position (cp), that's a really good indicator too. Takes a bit of practice, though


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The best way to be as sure as you can (and nothing is obv 100% accurate) is to chart, because no one fertile sign gives you the full picture. Fertile cm, cp and opks can help you work out if you're about to ovulate - and then temps can show you if and when you did. And if you're still trying after two or three months, you can look back at your charts and compare them, to try & pinpoint ovulation - or identify if there might be a problem.
Good luck - and I'm sure Sam's sibling will be on their way soon

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Love, dats xxx