hi people! my name is claire t. i am 21 and have a daughter of 18 months. i just wounderd if there was anyone out there who is like me?
i got prg last september and had a bleed, i went and had a scan and got told everything was fine. two days later, at 13 weeks i had a miscarriage.i was so upset after being told everything was fine by the doctors. i had a second miscarriage at cristmas, i was only 6 weeks though. i am now 8 weeks preg and very worried about losing this baby. i have had no signs but after two miscarriges you always think the worst. i hope there is someone out there i could talk to as my 3 older sisters have all had very good pregs and dont really understand.
Posts: 30 | Location: United Kingdom | Registered: 26 April 2005
Sorry to hear of your bad news. Unfortunately, I do not have any experience with miscarriage but only with Ectopic. I can assure you however, that there are lots of lovely ladies on this site that will no doubt give you some comfort at a time like this.
Keep smiling and take care
XX
Posts: 312 | Location: United Kingdom | Registered: 10 March 2005
i had a misscarriage last june at 11 weeks and it was horrid but i got pregnant again 6 months later and i am currently 27 weeks pregnant now with a little boy, it is so difficult have you spoken to the doctor about getting an early scan done i had one at seven weeks, mind you as you have already expeirienced you can have the scans and be told all is well, i know its hard as every twinge or pain you think this is it dont you my friend is exactly the same she had a maisscarriage last july/aug and she has just found out she is pregnant again its a very trying time. try to stay posotive its meant to help apparently i hope all goes well for you love leah
hi claire ive had 4 misscarriges and lost 5 babies as one misscarrige was twins but ive also got 3 children when you had your misscarriges did you go through a lot of pain if not your cervix is not holding and you may need to have a stitch put in your cervix if you did have the pain there normally something wrong with the baby and your body is rejecting and also are you nesus negative(i know ive spelt that wrong sorry i can't remember how to spell it) as if you are you need injections after every bleed through pregnacy weather its a slight bleed, misscarrige or giving birth your next child needs protection from your anti bodies if the worst does happen which it more than likley will be a sucsessful pregancy but they will investigate after 3 misscarriges so you would know what under lying problems you might have take care hope everything is ok love sparklexx
Posts: 971 | Location: UNITED KINGDOM | Registered: 18 February 2005
thanks girls. your so right leah. when i first found out i was pregi didnt even want to move incase some thing went wrong. when i had my first miscarriage i was in a lot of pain but thanks for your advice and surport i will ask my doc ifi can have an early scan. thanks once again girls claire[]
Posts: 30 | Location: United Kingdom | Registered: 26 April 2005
Hi Claire. I'm sorry about what happend to you it must have been dreadfull for you i cant offer advise as i'm expecting my first all i can say is i hope it all works out for you and to try to stay possitve all my luv.
MOLLY[]
Posts: 118 | Location: United Kingdom | Registered: 25 March 2005