well I ended up going to the chemist and having a test there as I cantnt believe I was pregnant.They told em I was so I'm over the moon!! Going to the doctors today to tell them, will have to watch what I eat now any way,I'll ask them what I have to avoid! I have a friend who has been trying with her husband for the past two years and she was told that he cant have kids with out help, so I really dont know weather to tell her or not, well bad for her and happy for me so what shall I do? thats the question? I'm sure she will be happy for me but I cant help now feeling guilty, after all it only took two months trying. lisa
Posts: 30 | Location: United Kingdom | Registered: 16 October 2003
Hi Lisa. Congratulations !! You must be so excited! With regards to your friend, I was in the same situation with my older sister. She couldn't conceive without help and had been trying for years when I got pregnant. So I waited to reach the 4th month of pregnancy just to make sure, and when I told her, I also offered her to be the Godmother if she liked. We are V. close and so she ended up being as happy as I was that I was expecting. I therefore involved her as much as possible with the pregnancy and she was also there at the birth (along with hubby). My baby's now 8 months and her and my sister love each other to bits. Needless to say, they're very close too. This has lifted a little bit my sister's desperation for a baby and helped her accept her fate. Good luck with everything. Let me know of your views on this. Take care. Anne
Posts: 62 | Location: United Kingdom | Registered: 27 January 2004
