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No probs at all Jen. I hope it works out for you but please remember we are here to support you through whatever. I'll keep an eye out for how things go so please let us know how it goes on Friday with the scan. I will keep my fingers crossed.

If you ever need to talk i post regularly on the due in August/September thread hun

Rhi
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Thank Rhi,

Well the bleeding started again and it is now bright red with tiny clots, I'm not in any pain but I'm still not feeling hopeful. I called my Doctor and he said that there still isn't anything they can do. He said that it is eith a missed abortion but I would have had heavy bleeding pretty much straigh away or it could be a delayed period which will only last for two days so I am praying that it will have stopped by tomorrow, if it hasn't then I am going to get an emergency appointment tomorrow morning. I feel so rubbish, I can't help but think that this is the end for me just when I had come to terms with having another baby and getting quite excited about it.

Thank you once again Rhi

Love Jen x

It sounds like it has hit you hard when you have only just come to terms with having another little one. Unfortunately though what is meant to be will be. I will keep everything crossed for you that it will settle and you will be ok. Just remember though that if it doesn't happen this time then there is no stopping you from trying again in a month or so if you have decided having another baby is right for you at the moment.

Big Hugs hun and try to keep positive as best you can. I'm always here if you want to chat.

Rhi
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Thank you again Rhi. The clots haven't stopped unfortunately and is looking bad. My poor DF was sooo disappointed, he said that he was was just getting used the idea of having another little one and was quite looking forward to it so I hope that we would try for another as soon as it is safe to.

I do have my little 10 month old Grace, so for that I am greatful. She kept us both smiling tonight flinging tagliatelli all over her pretty dress that Daddy chose and giving us a cheeky smile afterwards!

DF is going to take me to the doc tomorrow to be checked over.

Love Jen x

J

Im sorry that your bleeding has got worse, keeping everything crossed that it will turn out to be ok.

Take Care & ((((((HUGS)))))) to you and DF.

Emma

Thank you Emma, I can't help but think the worst unfortunately. I will see the doc and see what he says.

Love Jen x

I'm so sorry Jen. Good Luck at the docs today and let us know how it goes. Give your little girl lots of hugs to cheer you up.

Big Hugs

Rhi
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Jen hun, I am trying to stay poitive for you , and hoping that you will get good news at the end of this. I know that some can bleed and all be well. This may sound awful, but if its going to happen, better this early rather than later. I know it may not feel like that now. Although saying that things still might be ok and I hope that I have not upset you more that you already are. If I have shoot me.

Love Lorraine. xxx

J - How are you doing today?

Emma

Thanks Rhi

Lorraine - You would never upset me hun and what you have said is very true and I couldn't agree more.

I went to the docs who sent me straight to A&E with a letter for the Gynae SHO. The cramping pains were getting worse and then the Gynaecologist (or however you spell it!) examined me and said that he wouldn't beat around the bush, it is very likely that I am having a miscarriage due to the pain and excessive bleeding with big clots but it is better to miscarry now than to miscarry 5 weeks later (as you said Lorraine). They said they couldn't fit me in for a scan as they were too busy so I could either stay in over night and have a scan first thing in the morning or go home and have one friday, as I knew what the results would be at the scan I opted for the friday one.

DF took me for something to eat in the hospital and I had a huge urge to go to the loo for a wee and when I got there, there was this huge clot the size of half a plum so now I know that the Gynaecologist was right.

DF is really disappointed but atleast we have our little grace, who is becoming cheekier by the day!

Thanks Emma for your post, I will keep an eye on how your progressing.

Love Jen x

J

I am sooooooooo sorry that you are going through this.

Surley the hospital could of squeezed you in for a scan, it makes me so mad - they were to busy, how disgraceful!!

I really dont know what to say . . . .

Take Care

Emma

Jen

Im so sorry this has happened to you, I have been following your progress in a lurking kind of way. Take things as easy as you can and enjoy grace and your DF.

Jenny
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Oh Jen hun, I am so sorry to hear the bad news. It's not what you wanted to hear i know. Just try and be strong with DH and give grace loads of cuddles when you both feel down.

If you ever want to email me to either rant or pore out your feelings my email is rhibennett@hotmail.com

Huge Hugs

Rhi
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Rhi - that is really sweet of you, I will have to add you to my address book, mine is jenrivett@yahoo.co.uk, feel free to e-mail whenever you like hun. I want to say a massive thank you to you for popping on everyday to share your concern, I really appreciate it, you have been very kind hun.

Thank you Emma, I hope I will be joining another babie due thread soon.

Jenny - Thank you so much for coming on, it's nice to know you have been checking my progress. I think I posted earlier on your thread about spotting, I hope you get that BFP hun, keep me posted.

THIS AFTERNOON

I had a nice two hour sleep whilst DF was cooking my favourite tea, sausage caserole with roast potatoes. I woke up to Grace coming through the door with Nanny, with a lovely bunch of flowers. Grace has been entertaining us for the last hour or so by chasing the dog round (poor thing) and pulling everything out of her changing bag and giggling afterwards!

Hope to hear from you soon.

Love Jen x

Jen hun, you know where I am, give me a shout ((((Hugs))))

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