k, I just needed a little guidance, I wasn't trying to upset anyone. We have decided to keep this baby and do the best we can, I am still attending university and will get tied once this one is born. Thank you for the hostility, I do realize thatthere are people who cant have children, before I started having kids I thought I was one of them. That doesn't change the fact that sometimes people get confused and lost. Again, so sorry to hav bothered you and I will be sure never to ask for support on here again. I suppose I didn't need help anyway...
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im sorry abt the situation u r in i would not like 2 be in u shoes, but i think if u did'nt want any more kids u should have been using a more relieable method of contraception but im very against abortion i look at it like that baby did'nt ask 2 b made u should have been more careful. i am on the ttc thread with woman who would give any thing for a baby. u also have 2 think could u live with the guilt? having 3kids already it could be hard 2 think u r getting rid of there brother or sister. could u start university next year?
im sorry im not much help like i said im sorry 4 u and 4 ur baby that u r in this situation only u can deside wat 2 do and if aborting the pregnancy is wat u want 2 do then dont listen 2 people like me who r against abortion
Please dont take offence but I really think you are posting on the wrong forum for this sort of advice. There are ladies on this site who desperatley want children and seeing your post only makes it much more harder.
I agree with Kitkat that after having 3 children I would of thought you would have had a better method of contraception and as I am sure you are aware sperm can last up to 8 days inside a women.
However it is to late for contraception advice now and you and you partner need to sit down and discuss what is best for you and your family. If you decide it is best to terminate, then it is the pair of you who have to live and deal with your decisions.
I hope you seek advice, maybe you should go and see you GP and tak to them and they might be able to refer you to a more qualified person.
Good Luck
Emma
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Emma and KITKAT are right pet, u wont get the advice you want on here, as theres people on here having trouble ttc, and desperately want to be pg. Withdrawel method is not a form contraception, its an immature way of trying to avoid pregnancy. Its common knowledge that sperm leaks out before ejaculation, and can survive for up to 5-7 days inside you before you even ovulate. Im not giving out to you hun, or preaching, but maybe ask somewhere where people understand your situation.my aunt was 25 with 4 kids, all by accident. She then had her tubes tied, and has a lovely brood, all grown up. Shes still in her 40's, her youngest is 11, and she's experience life now, and loving it!! They are all very good to her. You never know, it migtnt be as hard as you think to have one more? Good luck whatever you decide xx
hi im the mother of my daughter kelly who is 17 wks pregnant and is due in september. For salgam no offence intended but if you go onto u tube type in abortion and try looking at the pictures in graphic detail im sure u will think entirely different about abortions i cant watch this without breaking down its heartwrenching i am also against abortion
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