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Hello Everyone,

I am not sure if my idea for a new Thread will be popular... But here goes...

I love the message boards but as the months have dragged on and it seems like everyone else has got their BFP's except a few of us it has made reading some of the threads difficult. Now after an absence of quite a few weeks (Although I do read your posts every few days) I wanted to come back and post but I feel like I need to be chatting to others in a similar position to myself.

I have officially been TTC since March 2005 and in that time have seen so many wonderful stories and shared in all the excitement of the Two Week Wait with the coveted BFP at the end of it.
I know there are a few ladies in a similar position so if you want to come and join me feel free.

I started that 2WW thread and to be totally honest I did not think I would be sitting here now and not pregnant, I thought it might be lucky for me as other threads have been for a lot of the posters, but alas not yet!!

So for anybody TTC 6 months or more and you want or need to talk about the issues that throws up then this is the place.

Much Love

Sparklekiss xx

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Me 37 DH 34
TTC since March 05
PCOS on Met soon to be a Clomid Gal from Jan 2008.




 
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yes Sparklekiss this is a great idea
been ttcing since sept 2004 and i never dreamt i will not be pg by now as the doctors have told me i have no known problem preventing me from getting pg


will write soon.

tna (from clomid and other fertility drugs)
 
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HI Tna,

Thanks for replying.

You know what made me come online today and write this thread??
We were out to dinner with OH Family on Sunday and the talk got round to babies etc. He has 2 sisters who although in their late 20's and early 30's they do not have any children either. OH Mum is wonderful and would never want to upset anyone but said at the table... My Eamonn will make me a Grandmother first I just know he will to much amusement from around the table. I sat there and wanted to scream and say If only you knew how much I would love to make you a Granny. Anyway thats what kind of prompted me into thinking about wanting to speak to others in the same boat so to speak.

I know people do not meant to be insensitive but when your emotions are red raw when AF rears her ugly head each month and you come on here and see so many success stories it does get hard. I will admit I have shed a few tears when I have sat here reading various posts. Some of joy that finally some of my fellow members have finally got that much wanted BFP and some through sheer frustration and jealousy...

Anyway...

Enough from me....
Sparklekiss xx




Me 37 DH 34
TTC since March 05
PCOS on Met soon to be a Clomid Gal from Jan 2008.




 
Posts: 638 | Location: Kent | Registered: 22 February 2005Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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hi my name is kelly i have also been ttc for nearlly 12months now and getting very depressed now wen af puts in an appearance.

we(me and df)already have 2 boys,kai who is 4 and ciaran who is 20mths on 1st jan,and have also found it hard ttcing them kai 2 1/2yrs and ciaran 12mths,my doc also couldnt find any reason why i couldnt concieve quicker than that.

i'm just hoping we'll have some lovely new years news to give every one this time[Big Grin],(hope that every bloody month tho).

i love reading all the pregnancy threads but this one is great,love kelly16 xxx


 
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I often think Unexplained INfertility is the hardest of all. When you have PCOS or DH has a low sperm count or when the female just does not ovulate or similar at least you knwo there is a reason, but to often be told we don't know why you cannot conceive must be the hardest of all...

Good luck to you Kelly.

Sparklekiss x




Me 37 DH 34
TTC since March 05
PCOS on Met soon to be a Clomid Gal from Jan 2008.




 
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Hi Sparklekiss

I came off the pill in March 05 and still TTC, my problem is irregular cycles. I believe i have just ovulated for the third time since March with cycles that have been 171, 55, now on CD53!!

You try for so long not to get pg and when you do (and have friends that fall at the drop of the hat) it gets really depressing [Frowner]

B xx
 
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Lumney ((HUgs))

Long time no see....

The long cycles must drive you mad, because I know it means you have to keep up the BD and although I know we don't just BD to conceive I find it hard enough sometimes what with work, housework, friends family etc finding time.. lol

What do you do? Are you using OPK's? Or do you just BD every few days just in case of a temp rise? You do chart don't you? I am sure I have looked at your chart before. Have you been to see Dr about your long cycles? Have you heard about Soy??

Sparklekiss x




Me 37 DH 34
TTC since March 05
PCOS on Met soon to be a Clomid Gal from Jan 2008.




 
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Ooops meant to tell you about Soy...

Well here goes.

For those of you that read the Circle message baords on FF you may have heard about Soy Isoflavins.

Basically a lot of women on there TTC have had some success with Soy.

You use it like Clomid and take it for five days after AF starts.

You can use it CD 2 - 6 or 3 - 7 or 4 - 8. Reccomended dose is 165mg daily. Some reccomend to take in the evening as it can cause headaches. I took mine in the morning and YES I did have horrible tension headaches for approx 3 days.

Now I have searched the internet to find more information about Soy Isoflavins but the stuff I have read about Soy has been less postitve and claims it can in fact have an adverse effect when TTC. However this information is related to those women on a diet that is very high in Soy and not just taking it for a few days in the run up to Ovulation.

The Soy itself is supposed to bring a late Ovulation forward and help the ovaries release a good strong egg. Now whether the BFP's gained by the women that have used Soy have just been coincidence or it does in fact work is up to the individual.

Suffice to say I will try anything once so got myself off to Holland and Barrat and bought a bottle of Soy Isoflavins. I took 3 a day from CD2 through to CD 6. I have not ovulated yet. I am on CD13 and normally O on CD17 - 19. I have noticed some AF type cramps over last week or so since I took it, whether that is good or bad God Knows.

Anyway just sharing info... lol

Sparklekiss x




Me 37 DH 34
TTC since March 05
PCOS on Met soon to be a Clomid Gal from Jan 2008.




 
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Hi Sparklekiss

I pretty much look out for anything and everything!! I noticed on Saturday sharp pains in my left ovary and then Sunday, yesterday and today i am feeling wet and a lot more sexy (sorry tmi), plus boobs are slightly sore!! When i have all the above and i 'feel' like i am about to ovulate then i do POAS and then it is all a waiting game. DH and I have made a point of BD'ing more often than not this month in the hopes that we succeed as you will see from my chart!! He has been feeling a bit poorly the last few days but has been a little soldier and made his deposits just in case [:I] Not sure what my luteal phase is but last month was 10 days so I guess i should wait until New Years Eve to test!!

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/a49e5

Am logging off now as loads of stuff to do, take care and i'll catch up very soon.

B xx
 
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Hi Sparkle

I have beent ttc since came off bcp 6 months ago - my problem is similar to Lummy in that I have irregular and long cycles. First was cd 135 and I am on cd38 at the moment with no hint of ovulation but have just started temping to see if that helps make things clearer.
I am taking a break from ttc until february as i want to see if things settle down without the stress of ttc (plus we are going skiing in between then so it seemed like a good idea).

I have 3 pregant friends at the moment all whom came off the pill and got pregnant the next month (!) I too have had lots of comments about DH mum wanting to be a grandma etc People seem to assume that I am not producing on purpose!

Anyway - i get the feeling that this thread should be for proper ttcers after 6 months - in fairness i have not been able to actively ttc as i did not have a period for 5 months.

Just wanted to say hi and send my good wishes to you and also to find out what can you tell me about soy as i drink soya milk regularly? The reason i switched to soy is that my acupuncturaist told me that cows milk was clogging me up!

is there something bad about this?

AnaB
 
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Hi Ana,

See this is where you will find conflicting views on all things Soy related. Some women are claiming it gave themn the much desired BFP and then you may read an article like this taken form Baby Hopes.com website.


How does soy affect fertility?
Soy and Estrogen
Soy is an excellent source of protein and the female reproductive hormone estrogen. Soy foods contain phytoestrogens, literally meaning plant-derived estrogen. The type of phytoestrogen in soy is known as isoflavones. These isoflavones come in different forms and have different effects. Some may function similarly to estrogens in the body, producing a very weak effect compared to the real hormone. And others act as antiestrogens, to reduce the activity of estrogen. Evidence is growing that these phytoestrogens may help with menopausal symptoms, as well as inhibits cancer cell growth.

Soy and its Effect on Fertility
There are not many studies done in this field, however some reports suggest that in countries where soy products are consumed in large amounts, the birth rate is no lower than in countries where soy is not routinely consumed.

A few studies suggest that high levels of soy protein may decrease fertility. According to a report in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition a small number of studies have shown that high levels of soy can increase menstrual cycle length, decrease FSH (follicle-stimulating hormone) and decrease LH (leutinizing hormone). But we must note that the high levels of soy generating this effect are equivalent to drinking three 12-ounce glasses of soy milk (60 g soy protein equivalent to 45 mg of isoflavones) for a month. However, normally most people do not consume this much soy.

The American Family Physician magazine stated that up to one-quarter of women with fertility problems may be helped by dietary changes. The researchers state that, since the phytoestrogens in soy products increase the length of the follicular phase and lead to fewer menstrual cycles over a woman's lifetime, it is possible that soy may decrease fertility in some women. But they also add here that women with multiple risk factors for infertility may be more sensitive to soy than others.

Some studies on various animal species have also indicated that eating high levels of phytoestrogens from soy can have adverse effects on fertility. But there is no current data to suggest that consumption of phytoestrogens at the levels normally encountered in the diet of animals in these tests or humans in general are likely to be harmful.

A more recent review reported in The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition sates that reproductive and developmental toxicity studies did not find significant variations in fertility from soy phytoestrogens consumption in healthy couples, indicating that normal intake of soy is basically harmless to your fertility and hence your chances of becoming pregnant or maintaining a pregnancy.

If for any reason you are experiencing fertility problems, it certainly is a good idea to limit soy in your diet to rule out any possibilities of its effect on your fertility. Since it's the protein portion of soy that contains the phytoestrogens, you should try to avoid tofu, soy milk, tempeh, TVP and soy nuts. Soy sauce does not contain phytoestrogens, and so you can continue using this to flavor foods. As with any food, it is wise not to overconsume. Eating soy in moderation allows you to avoid any potential harm due to overconsumption, as well as leaves more scope for a variety in your diet which helps you are to get all the important nutrients that your body needs.

I think individuals need to make their own mind up. My mind is everthing in moderation.

Sparklekiss x




Me 37 DH 34
TTC since March 05
PCOS on Met soon to be a Clomid Gal from Jan 2008.




 
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Sorry to butt in on this thread, but was reading about the soy and thought I`d stick my two penneth in!
I don`t know an awful lot about it to be honest, but what I do know is that A LOT of women in my office use soy products to help alleviate the symptoms of the menopause and they say it really does work for that, but as for using it in an effort to aid ttc, I`ve also read reports that it can do more harm than good (in vast quantities).


 
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Sparkle
how lovely to hear from you again [Big Grin] and yes please I'd love to join this thread. I've also been ttc since March 2005 and you may remember that we had chemical pgs around the same time in June/July [V]

I also have found it so hard to see the BFPs come and go and I said ages ago when I joined these threads that my biggest fear is being left behind and lo and behold!! what has happened....!!?

I have found this journey the hardest thing that we have done as a couple because you can't unmake the decision to start ttc, can you?!

Thank you for starting this thread and I look forward to us being happy on here
love
Loocy xxx
 
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Hi Sparkle,

Really lovely to hear from you again, and I do understand how you feel.

There has been a massive spate of success stories on the 2WW thread in the last month, and of course I'm really, really happy for the ladies, as its so well deserved, but I can't deny it does make me worry about being left there!

I don't really know if I should be posting on here or not, as I have been trying since May 05, but have had 1 m/c, so I understand this makes a difference, but I just wanted to pop in and say hello anyway! I tend to live on the 2WW thread but like to catch up on how everyone else is doing from time to time!

Take care and good luck!

Dippy
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Anabanana - [Big Grin]Just wanted to say (and forgot in my last post) that if you need support, we're here no matter that you've only been 5 months and only one AF.

Also I should have provided some personals...
Me: 32 in Jan (eek in about 3 weeks... aargh another year older!)
DH: 36 in Jan
Married 2 years
TTC since Mar 05
Temping on and off - having a break this month as it's v stressful and just watching out for OV signs.
Chem pg in June
Currently on CD26, 8DPO - usually OV around CD16-18

I have mild polycystic ovaries but have regular OV and AF so don't have full-blown PCOS so, technically, this shouldn't be causing too much of a problem when ttc (ha ha[Smiler][Razzer]!!)

I have started down the NHS route and am due to have an HCG (or whatever it's called - an Xray of my tubes) in March to see if there are any blockages. I've had bloods done and they've all come back fine and DH has a normal sperm count (whatever normal is)! I know I'm so lucky in that I have a very understanding GP [Smiler] who referred me to Gynae after we had ttc 6 months (in my area he said women of my age is normally 2 years [:0]).

I've told both my mum and dad about us ttc but we would never, ever tell my inlaws (DH's folks) as they just wouldn't understand [V] We don't have a great relationship with them anyway and if they knew about this, they would blame me totally [V][Frowner!]

Sorry enough rambling
love
Loocy xx
 
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