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i think my boyfriend is cheating on me though he says he's not. My friends have told me that he's been seen around with another girl and i shouldn't trust him but he swears he only wants me. I don't know if I should believe my friends or him. I know he's a bit of a flirt but I don't think he'd do anything to hurt me. We've been goin out for 6 months.

I always say that a relationship is no good without trust. If you feel you cant trust this guy after 6 months get rid. Plenty more fish in the sea!

i think that you should just ask him straight out...and truthfully, 6 months isn't that long for a guy to feel totally commited to someone especially if your friends are saying that they have seen him with somone else already...

hi ya darlin my names ashleigh and i really think you should believe your friends.
my EX bestfriend (kerstie) got with this lad (michael)
and were together for around 6-7 months when he first cheated on her with a mates mate.
mine and kerstie's friend gary persuaded his friend to tell kerstie and when they did so kerstie kicked off and called gary a liar!
then 3weeks down the line michael admitted it. we all grew apart due to this incident and every time gary n i r out and michael is he's with someone else and where's kerstie at he's house waiting for him we fone her were both liars now 4-5 weeks down the line he's finished with her and she's got no one so don't be to sure chick ok!

i think you should ask him straight if he doesn't say anything to help and your still not sure why not dump him you can't always trust boys there's plenty more fish in the sea. you can't have a boyfriend you can't trust

i think you should get pay back start hanging around with some boys and flirt with them you will give him a piece of his work but then again there must be a reason under him hanging around with this girl ask him why he is hanging around with her if he doesnt have n answer he is probaly lying so you should dump him

hope this helps

never ask a guy if he's cheating he will always deny it. unless he dont care about you then he will not say anything. i would trust what your friends say because theyhave your best intrest at heart. guys come and go forget him!! without trust there is nothing. also search his phone for certain numbers or messages or if he doesnt pick up his phone when hes around you.etc. womens intuition is always right! good luck!!

look i knew my ex for two years a i left for a long weekend with my friends and he went out with his boys for labor day weekend and he cheated on me with this ugly bitch and we were going out for two years hun six months is nothing and hes a flirt i think you should beleive your friends i was in denial for a long time its not worth it!
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Hey...i have been in a relationship and experianced this sort of thing. No matter how many people you talk to you, how much advice you get and how many forums you go on, no one will give u the advice you know is right and you will actually take...But YOURSELF. You no doubt know this boy, but you also know your friends, would they lie to you and want you to be hurt ? This question needs to be answered and helped by you. I know it is so hard to except things...but if this guy has cheated you need to show him you wont sit back and be his door mat whilst he is off with other girls....you need to call it a day but at the same time KNOW that your doing the right thing. Following your mind is alot less foolish than following your heart, as we all may know...love is blind . Keep your head up hunny. x

hey girl,
if you have know your friends for a while and you trust them i dont think thye would lie to you bout you and your boyfriend inless they are jeoulus of what you guys have i think you should talk to him bout it and tell him what you heard and that you like him alot and wanna belive him and trust him but you heard all these things and if they are your real friends they woulnt wont to see you get hurt and they wouldnt lie to you bout this when i went with a boy for the same amount of time that nobody wantted us togather but we was in love and we didnt care intell everybody started to butt in our realationship we broke up and we havnt talked sense he got a new girlfriend and turns out he never was doing the things they said but i belived my friends over the person i loved and it was a mistake but the only thing i can really tell you is that you gatta belive in your heart and go with your gut feeling