Hi Claire,
Felt I had to leave you a message after what you have written above.
I can totally connect with what you are meaning.
I have a little boy who will be 3 in Feb 09, and am desperate to have another.. Hubby has just recently started coming round the idea of having another, before it was an absolute no-no! He wants to start trying now, but, I took a while to conceive 1st time and had several miscarriages.
I feel the least I can do is be fit and healthy (well!!) before we start trying.
I have 4-5 stone to lose before I would be happy.
At the moment though losing this amount of weight just seems to be a lifetime away.
It does get hard keeping positive.. and I keep seeing all these heavily pregnant woman walking around showing off their bumps (well I do have a bump, but its not that kind!!). I want that to be me.
... Lets try and lose this bloomin weight together... we know it WILL be worth it in the end.
Gillian xx