Hi flutterby. see
www.lighterlife.com and
www.cambridge-diet.co.ukThese are the VCLD (very low calorie diets) that the poeple on this thread are using, with such success. LL is more expensive, but includes group counselling. There are lots of opinions of the two on the women's health, weight loss, thread.
If it is for you, and the time has to be right - I think we've all tried EVERYTHING before. Re cost. surgery costs �7,500+ and that is what I was considering, even if I had to borrow the money, I was so unhappy and yes, desparate.
I was buying a bottle of wine each day for me and other half, now I don't and he doesn't drink either, so that's at least �25 per week. You don't have to buy, snacks of sandwiches when you're out, or fizzy drinks. Then there's the foos shopping. If you think about it after that, it's not that much literally, to give you a new life.
Anyway, I'm not here to sell you anything, or even influence your opinions. Do the research, make your own mind up, and join us if you want to - hope you do. Ann x